Lola - lola@hubzilla.monster

Lola

lola@hubzilla.monster

Not your typical stereotype. I'm a feminine male who is both CIS and trans at the same time. Just trying to navigate life my own way and have some fun while I am at it.

Gender:: Other

Status:: It's complicated

2025-03-31 13:02:25

Lola

lola@hubzilla.monster

Normally I just keep to myself, but maybe I should branch out on #TransVisibilityDay and hopefully find some people who are not too judgmental.

2025-04-01 04:06:04

Lola

lola@hubzilla.monster

Fitting. I posted on #transdayofvisibility and no one noticed. Lol

2025-04-01 11:19:40

Marshall Sutherland

dwatney@hub.farthinghalearms.com

I saw your original post but felt no need to respond.

2025-04-01 22:29:06

Lola

lola@hubzilla.monster

That's okay. I like flying under the radar. I'm less likely to be attacked by anti-trans people, and also less likely to be attacked by trans people who take offense to anything. I may not fit people's gender stereotypes, but I am not so insecure that I perceive different opinions as threats. Unlike some of the more vocal trans people, and as someone who looks CIS but doesn't act like one, I respect everyone's choice of lifestyle. So I tend to get attacked by both trans and anti-trans. So blending into the background is a defense mechanism.