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Lola

lola@hubzilla.monster

Not your typical stereotype. I'm a feminine male who is both CIS and trans at the same time. Just trying to navigate life my own way and have some fun while I am at it.

Gender:: Other

Status:: It's complicated

2025-02-14 21:24:41

Lola

lola@hubzilla.monster

You know you are a feminine guy when lesbians are sexually attracted to you.

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2025-02-16 08:05:23

Lola

lola@hubzilla.monster

NSFW, Sex, Relationships, Personal

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2025-02-16 08:11:50

Lola

lola@hubzilla.monster

This has got me thinking. I think the biggest difference between feminine and masculine is not strength, but method.

Masculine energy is more likely to be assertive and even use force when necessary to get things done. This can be used in a good way or a bad way. Force can be used against people, for example. But it also can be used to protect people and take care of people.

Feminine energy, on the other hand, is more about attracting what you want and influencing people to do something. And this also can be used in a good way or bad way. Manipulation can also be used against people, as an example. But it also can be used to influence people in a positive way and to encourage them to do things that are good for them.

Neither is inherently better. The world needs both depending on the situation.

2025-02-16 19:45:28

Lola

lola@hubzilla.monster

True. It is extreme for normies, but even people in the middle often have sway in their sexuality. They put on one face to the outside world, and a different face in the bedroom. And true freedom is when you can take off the mask and be yourself.